Something I've been musing lately is the idea of 'having kinks' vs. 'being kinky' - where exactly do we draw the line between what's vanilla and kinky? Is there a grey area in between? Kinks can be a learning opportunity, both in terms of what you find enjoyable and in terms of really bringing home… Continue reading What are Kinks Anyway?
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Suits & Sensuality
Suits—those restrictive and stuffy reminders of authoritarianism. A disguise designed to present a sense of decorum, of superiority and professionalism. I utterly despise what they stand for, and yet I find myself curiously attracted to men in suits. For years, I've admired menswear departments for their arrays of shirts, ties, jackets, trousers...belts. There's something so… Continue reading Suits & Sensuality
(No Need To) Fight the Anxiety
I'm sitting here, feeling inexplicably anxious about things. Those 'things', on the surface, seem hunky dory. We've just eaten a roast dinner, with a delicious gravy, mixed expertly by the gravy maestro himself (what can I say, it's his forte). The laundry is all done (quite literally all the clothes we both own). We've also… Continue reading (No Need To) Fight the Anxiety
Reverse Cinderella: Holding Back
It's Mental Health Awareness Week, so I wanted to deviate from the usual content on here and post something a little more personal. Feel free to let me know about things you deal with and how you manage them. I'm all ears. Have you ever had that feeling that you're just like Cinderella? And… Continue reading Reverse Cinderella: Holding Back
Freshly Shaven / Braless
Keeping pubic hair as it was intended has never been an issue to me, neither practically nor aesthetically speaking. In fact, I'm all for rocking a natural look—no matter who it is we're talking about. Still, there's something about having a good shave down there. It just feels so damn good—at least when I don't… Continue reading Freshly Shaven / Braless
What I like about pornography
As well as posting intermittent erotic fiction, musings, and sex toy reviews, I want to use this space to start reviewing some of the porn I've been watching. I don't watch porn to get off to it. On the contrary, I find it very difficult to masturbate while watching porn. It puts me off. Sure,… Continue reading What I like about pornography
What I Learned from Running an ‘Alt’ Nudes Account on Twitter
Foreword: Before I get stuck into this post, I'd like to make it very clear that I am no longer operating this alt account, for various reasons which I will get to later. So you won't find anything if you try to search for it. I have wanted to write about this for a while,… Continue reading What I Learned from Running an ‘Alt’ Nudes Account on Twitter
On Having a ‘Dream’ Dick
This post is not, as the title might suggest, about an idealised dick, because what the fuck is that anyway? As we know, they come in all shapes, sizes and levels of hairiness. To all the people with dicks, I say this—no matter what it looks like, you have nothing to be ashamed about. Same goes for… Continue reading On Having a ‘Dream’ Dick
The Would-be Amsterdam Voyeurs
My cousin H and I went to Amsterdam for our "joint" birthday celebration—I only emphasise the word "joint" for the double-entendre, but I've only tried smoking weed once in my entire life and I can tell you I failed miserably at it. Didn't even inhale the stuff properly. We have half-Dutch cousins on my dad… Continue reading The Would-be Amsterdam Voyeurs
The Bloodhound Gang vs. Innuendos
The Bloodhound Gang are a band that are pretty much synonymous with providing ample innuendo and sex-related quips across a good portion of their songs, but all with a proper dash of light-heartedness and comedy. You probably know their most famous song The Bad Touch . I specifically remember requesting this song… Continue reading The Bloodhound Gang vs. Innuendos
Lustful Lines 